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The College Precipice
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Teach me to do Your will, For You are my God; Let Your good Spirit lead
me on level ground.
– Psalm 143:10

I couldn’t help but think of a pirate plank as I climbed the ladder toward a
wooden platform, suspended about eight feet off the ground in mid-air. Half-
expecting to hear the guide call me “matey,” I paused for a moment, only to
hear the familiar chatter of high school classmates below, and a serene
rustling of leaves above.

I knew what to do – several of my friends had just done this – so I walked
to the end of the platform, looked out across a sea of friends, then turned
around, my back toward my classmates, facing the guide. At this point I
began to feel frightened. What if it didn’t work? “On the count of three,” she
began. “One… two… three!”

With a rush of adrenaline I fell backwards, into the arms of people with
whom I had shared my teenage years. Working as a team to keep my body
elevated – mosh-pit style – they carried me to the end of the group and set
me down feet first, perfectly exemplifying what we had come to learn – that
trust and teamwork get the job done.

At the time I thought it strange that we would go to a team-building ropes
course for our senior trip, since people usually do something like this at the
beginning of a project, rather than as a form of goodbye. Of course, we had
tons of fun (most of which included staying up all night and shaving cream
ambushes). But we already knew how to work as a team – four years of
high school activities had done that.

Little did I know, though, how accurately this event foreshadowed the
coming first year of college. Sure, the parameters changed – the stakes
became higher. But when it came right down to it, going forward into life and
leaving the past behind was really just another test of trust – both thrilling
and frightening at the same time.

A precipice is: 1) a cliff with a vertical, nearly vertical, or overhanging face,
and 2) a situation of great peril. Going to college can be a huge precipice in
your life by both definitions. Here you stand, on relatively secure ground
(while acknowledging that every woman comes from a different background,
I use the word secure because this reality is known) – overlooking a giant
chasm beyond which sits the new reality – your ideal adult life.

This precipice can be emotional or physical, but it always holds a spiritual
dimension. Separating your faith from that of your parents and friends,
learning to depend on God for big answers to life decisions, deciding which
path to take – these things test you – they test your spirit, your resolve,
your faith, your strength.

Trusting God during these tests takes you into adulthood with tremendous
potential. But I’m not talking about the scholastic potential that high school
counselors dangle before you almost like bait, as in “you have great
potential if you just apply yourself.” I mean real faith potential – real faith
energy -- that takes you through the trials of life, which gives you peace
when everything else falls apart.